There is nothing for you to go back and live over, fix, or feel regret about now. Every part of your life has unfolded just right. So… now it’s time to move forward and ask yourself, what do you want?
Take the time to reflect on your life and the experiences you’ve been given. Make an effort to seek out the positive aspects and lessons you learned instead of worrying you've made mistakes and dwelling on that awful, waste of time question, “What if?” Stop regretting the past. Release the fear that maybe you messed up and chose wrong. The universe never makes mistakes. Things happen for a reason and, ideally, you end up making the choices that give you the most growth. Sometimes growing pains hurt.
Every experience is giving us more knowledge about ourselves. I recently learned that I need and want to be with someone who really sees and accepts me and values my opinion. I didn’t know how important that was to me until I was with someone who didn’t really value me. I also realized that I wasn’t valuing myself because I was settling for less than what I want. I now have a better sense of the type of person who will be a good match for me. Once we figure out what we want and what is right for us, we are on our way to attracting it.
The universe abhors a vacuum. If you aren’t happy in some area of your life, open yourself up for what you really want. Create space in your life for someone or something better. You won’t be able to create or attract what you want if your time and energy is filled up with something else. Let go of what was, accept what is, and have faith in what will be.
Affirmations to help you let go of the past and move forward with joy:
“I am releasing the past, and I am moving forward with joy.”
“I am making the right choices for my highest and greatest good, and I am excited for my future.”
“I am opening myself up and creating space for what I really want.”
“I am open and ready for all the good that the universe has in store for me."
In love and light,